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how to get your Girlfriend back

It can be a very difficult and confusing time in a man’s life. The woman we love seems to be getting further out of our life no matter what we do.

Luckily for us there are some people who do know how to handle these situations right.  So who is best to give us advice ?  Well often people look for counsellor’s etc with Phd’s etc after their name, but I would suggest what we really want is someone with real life experience, someone who knows what works.

I have no Phd or qualifications in counselling or Phsycology. I have studied real life, and real people and I have studied mys own life. I have also learnt and researched much from the fields of Buddhism, Psychology, & Dating. Researching books by authors such as David Burns, Homer McDonald, Byron Katie, Matt Hudson & Deborah Phillips.

The Good news is that :

-  The easy part is actually getting your girlfriend back !! But the hard part is keeping her when you do !
- There are deep Psychological ingrained patterns in women that cause them to act the way they do towards us.
- These patterns respond to the way that you behave.
- Understand these and we will know exactly what we have to do to win back our lover.

- Everything you do now is critical, so make sure you are doing the right thing.

Many of his tips and advice that we need are very counter intuitive.

Many people think that telling your ex over and over how much you love them is going to somehow convince them to stay with you and be in love with you. In fact the opposite is true. This will push away your ex.

Why ?

Because it proves and shows how desperate and needy we are.

Where as our ex will come back when we show them that we are fine and happy no matter what they do, and in fact they are the one who is missing out on the good time we are having !

One book I would recommend that will definitely help is by Matt Hudson. He has some really revolutionary information about what works and what doesn’t.

From time immemorial men have tried to understand why women are the way they are. To go deeper how about understanding why they do the things they do. Surely thats how most of us do our evaluation of what or who we are ?

Many people seem to think they have the answers, and I am sure they have some. For me my answers have come from study of others, and personal experience. From experience I can say that not everyone who has been married for 20 years knows the secrets to a long marriage or why women do what they do. In life often it is when things go wrong that you learn the most.